Dad was watching the kids and I was putting dishes in the dishwasher and he started SCREAMING at them and I yelled and said “YOU NEED TO KNOCK IT OFF” and I was staring at him but he thought I was yelling at the kids so he sat down at the table and looked at me and I was still looking at him so he said “me?” And I said “yes you I’m tired of you screaming CONSTANTLY” and then he started yelling at me and I was yelling back trying to tell him about everything that I’ve gone through because of him but he just wouldn’t listen so he opened the basement door to go downstairs but Shane (who was sitting at the table too) said “Ryan you have to listen to her” but obviously he didn’t and he just went downstairs and so I just went to the corner of the counter and picked my head up so I didn’t cry and I could see Shane glancing up at me to check on me while he was messing with the kids so then once I got myself calmed down I started going to my Nana’s to tell Shondie but when I got there my Nana greeted me like normal and when I went to go tell Shondie everything dad was sitting in the chair with her in my Nanas living room and then I said “I should get back home” so I started fast walking out of the house but when I went to go get in the car dad came out and started acting like he was trying to catch me and saying “come here” and I said “you’re a horrible dad you’re absolutely evil” and he said “yes yes I am and what are you going to do about it” and then shondie and nana came out so he stopped and I got in my car and they got in theirs and while we were driving home I eventually ended up driving right next to them and I looked through the window of their car and looked at shondie and shook my head like trying to tell her that he wouldn’t listen and that he was being weird and she just nodded like telling me that she knew and then we got home but instead of being at dads we ended up being at moms but Shondie wasn’t there it was just me mom and dad (but at this point in the dream dad pretty much disappears until later) I went to go up to my room and then you walked in my house unannounced to surprise me so I ran up to you and gave you a hug, told you I was really happy that you were there, and that there was something I needed to tell you and then for some reason I went up to my room really quick but instead of seeing things from my pov I started seeing things from like another person’s pov and you asked mom what was wrong with me and mom said “just cut her some slack she’s dealing with a lot with me and her dad” and you said “what are you talking about you guys are already split up” and then I came back downstairs and you apparently had to play your instrument at this thing so you started cleaning your mouth and your instrument and you had this really cool putty that you just squirt some water in your mouth and then grab a piece of the putty and chewed on it a little bit and it got all the food from your teeth so your mouth would be clean and then since I haven’t been able to try anything like that from leaving the school you opened my mouth and put some water in there and gave me some putty and I said thank you and then I said “you know this actually tastes kinda good” and then I guess it was like a time jump into the future (we ended up in a store. Dad, me, and you are in the story right now more people come later) So me and you were sitting in the store just chilling while I’m trying to tell you everything when dad pops up and basically starts trying to say I’m complaining for no reason (I don’t really remember this part unfortunately but I’ll try and type whatever I do remember) and then Shondie, Shane, Nana, and mom show up and all of them including you start telling dad that he needs to listen to me but he doesn’t no matter what and I just went up to you and put my head on your shoulder (like I would do randomly in school when I was tired or angry and you would hug me and check on me) and that’s everything I remember from the dream because I’m pretty sure I woke up then
This dream could potentially symbolize some frustration and tension in your relationship with your father. The screaming and arguing in the dream may represent feelings of anger or resentment towards your father. It's possible that you feel like you haven't been heard or listened to by him in real life, which is why you're trying to get his attention in the dream. The fact that you go to your Nana's house to tell Shondie may suggest that you feel like you need to confide in someone outside your immediate family about these issues. Your interaction with the dream version of yourself may represent your subconscious desire for someone to comfort and support you through this difficult time. The instrument cleaning scene and the time jump into the future may symbolize a release or resolution of these feelings, as you're able to relax and enjoy yourself with your loved ones.